Check out this article on how to create and route submixes: Mix View | Sensory Percussion 2 Help
It sounds like for your sets you will need at least one submix.
Based on your description, I would recommend using the default Main Mix for your own headphone monitoring. That mix will have everything including the click.
Then you can create Mix Out 1 and route that to your band members and the audience. In each set, add everything except the click, to that submix.
That’s essentially how this template I made for you previously is set up. All you have to do to get that template to work is to rearrange your sets so that all of your modules: bass drum, snare 1, snare 2, tom 1, tom 2, overhead 1, overhead 2 are inside that group. You can do that by copy/pasting them or by dragging them from the library.
As always, if you are having difficulty troubleshooting something, feel free to write an email to support@sunhou.se and we can help you sort it out.